What Is a Sex Pillow? Do I really need one?

It took a while for my husband Jack to convince me that a sex pillow was a good idea! Before using one, I really did not understand the concept of ‘sex pillow’ – let alone why I would need to buy one!

Sex pillows are specifically designed for sex and they are actually helpful!

Well, I am pleased Jack took the lead and just ordered one. I quickly saw the benefits of having using one.

So, what is a sex pillow?

A sex pillow is a (much) firmer than average pillow shaped to make sex more comfortable and enjoyable. They often come with an easy-to-remove and wash waterproof cover, making it simple to keep them clean.

What is the point of having a sex pillow? There are many reasons.

If you are looking for a way to start expanding your sexual horizons but aren’t sure where to start, then a sex pillow is a great first step. In this article, I will tell you everything you need to know about them, including what they are, how they work and how to use them.

How Do Sex Pillows Work? 

Because sex is never as simple as the movies make it seem, some inventive souls created sex pillows. These pillows are designed to help you hold yourself in a more comfortable position during sex.

Sex in real life is never as easy as movies make it seem

You can use the sloped pillow in a variety of different ways. But, regardless of where you use it, the aim is the same. By changing the angle at which you hold your body, you can improve access for yourself and your partner. 

For instance, for women laying on their backs, you can slide the pillow under your hips. This will tilt your pelvis up. Your partner has better access to your clit and g spot in this position. This makes for more pleasurable oral sex and penetration. It also lets you get a good view of the action as well, which can heighten the pleasure for many people.

The other benefit of a sex pillow is that it not only helps you find different positions, but it makes it easier to stay in them. Sex furniture is a sure-fire way to enhance your sex life in many ways.

I’m sure we’ve all had the experience of finding a position that feels really, really good, only to have to move because of a cramp or not being able to keep it up for long. A sex pillow can go a long way to preventing this experience. Sex position pillows can also remove the pressure of performing while uncomfortable.

When you find a great position, you can slip the pillow in and take a load off. That way, you can focus on enjoying your favorite sex positions for longer. 

I will also add that as I rapidly approach 50, certain positions – including the most effortless ones – don’t get any easier with age. And some of us aren’t willing to give up our most pleasurable positions just yet. Couch cushions only go so far. For more support, deeper penetration, and a thriving sex life at all ages– reach for sex pillows.

Will a sex pillow work with new sexual positions?

Well, yes! It will.

It is always exciting to try new things, otherwise, sex can start to feel repetitive. But sex furniture can make a huge difference in partner play, enhance masturbation with your favorite toy, improve women’s health, and make way for new and exciting sex positions as we can read in this guide.

Did you know that only 25% of women reach orgasm through vaginal intercourse alone? Yet almost 100% of women will reach orgasm if a sex toy is included in their lovemaking play. (from marriage.com) One of the leading causes of this is poor sex positioning. It is much easier to stimulate the clit and orgasm but it isn’t nearly as fulfilling. But this can be fixed with the right sex pillow which does what a regular pillow can’t.

For angled penetration, use a large wedge ramp. The person seeking a vaginal orgasm lays on the ramp with the back and head down the slope and legs tightly pressed against the partner’s shoulders. As they pull your body to the edge of the ramp deepening vaginal penetration to achieve a leg-shaking vaginal orgasm. The fun position is referred to as “The G-Whiz” referring to how easy it is to hit the G-spot.

Half of all women can squirt according to BBC.co.uk! But it takes the right angle to get there. Reverse cowgirl is great for deep penetration while vulva owners stimulate their clit with the support of a pillow pet.

Pillows offer benefits for both partner sex by allowing you to achieve the perfect angle with the right support. Built for your pleasure, sex furniture offers more stability, precision, and safety than regular bed pillows.

You are always one wedge pillow, ramp, or half-moon pillow away from your best orgasm and renewed sex life.

Do Sex Pillows Really Help Sex Life? 

I’m sure a least a small part of you is thinking something along the lines of sex gets easier and more comfortable with a sex pillow…

“Why do I need a special pillow for this? I can just use the ones on my bed or roll up some blankets. So it can’t be worth buying a special pillow, can it?.”

First off, you’re not alone in having this thought.

Surprisingly – for those who never tried a sex pillow, there is a real difference between the pillows on your bed and a sex pillow.

The foam in a sex pillow is much firmer. This gives you the support to stay in the same position without sinking into the cushion. Also, because the pillow is sloped, you can easily slide it into place without having to fuss about it with multiple pillows to almost get the feeling you want.

Another reason to consider a sex pillow is if you are looking for a way to start a conversation about sex with your partner. It can be a simple, non-threatening way to try new things.

In addition, it can be an excellent tool for opening the door to a wider array of sex toys and aids.

What Types Of Sex Pillows Are There?

Like the best things in life, there are a lot of options when it comes to sex pillows.

They come in a few different shapes and sizes. This lets you find the right one for your needs. You can even combine them if you want to have not only great but also comfortable sex.

The most common shapes are:

• Wedge  
• Ramp
• Half-Cylinder/Half Pipe,
• Sex Lounge/Chaise 

What Is the Difference Between A Sex Wedge and A Sex Ramp?

At first thought, the difference between a ramp and a wedge doesn’t leap to mind.

In terms of basic shape, they are very similar. However, the difference is in their size. A wedge is a smaller pillow designed to support a specific area of your body such as the pelvic area or lower back, like your hips or neck. A ramp is much larger and suitable for supporting your entire back.

Can you have sex with your pillow? 

My general rule for this type of question is… if it’s safe and feels good to rub your pillow against your clit, go for it.

In fact, in my twenties, I had a close friend who often told us about the joys of masturbating with her pillow and reaching climax with simple rolling motions!

Nevertheless, most sex pillows are designed for facilitating different sexual positions rather than for having sex with them. But it doesn’t mean solo play is out of the question.

This change in position doesn’t just make them good for sex with a partner, though. Sex pillows are great for solo sex too.

For example, if you like to masturbate on your back, then using a wedge pillow can make it easier to play with yourself. It also allows you to see a bit more of what you’re doing. 

You can combine a sex toy with a pillow for a different experience. For instance, you could put a small vibe on the pillow. This works well if you are in a doggy position or just playing by yourself.

There are also sex pillows that allow you to mount a dildo on them while it will support your body.

What are the Most Popular Sex Pillows 

There are a lot of options to choose from when it comes to sex pillows. Here are a few options you might want to consider.

Dame Pillo

Dame is a woman-owned company that makes some great toys – such as Dame Eva II and Dame Pom. Their sex pillow, called Pillo, is small and discreet, so you can easily leave it out all day long with no worries about what your mother-in-law or kids might think.

Liberator

Liberator has an outstanding reputation for their sex pillows and sex lounges. They also have a wide range of options for you to consider. The Liberator Wedge is a tried and true option. They also have a ramp and a rocking curved pillow, which offer you even more possibilities.

Frequently Asked Questions

Is there a weight limit for sex pillows?

Most sex pillows don’t list a specific weight limit. So no matter your size, you can make use of them. However, if you and your partner are on the heavier side, you may find that the foam compresses a bit more, but it should still be effective.

Can you get travel friendly sex pillows for romantic getaways?

If you want a sex pillow for travel, there are some good inflatable options. They aren’t quite are firm as the foam alternatives, but they are much easier to pack in your suitcase. Some good ones to look for are from Adam and Eve and EMPHY.

Is sex pillow a sex furniture?

Yes. They are a type of sex furniture.