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I’m Alice (She/her)

Together with my partner, Jack (he/him), we wanted to create a site about sex and sex toys for the rest of us. We’re middle-aged. We have kids. And, we’re not ashamed to say that we love sex! If, like us, you don’t feel that sex is ‘naughty’ and other sites that talk about sex toys kinda make you cringe, then welcome to Vanilla is the New Kink!

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